The funniest part about the way my previous relationship ended (infidelity) was the fact that from the beginning he made it clear that he “hated cheaters because of how his father was cruel to his mother with his infidelity.” In the end he ended up being exactly like his father.

Lesson? The words of people mean absolutely nothing.

Recently one of my friends decided since we haven’t talked in a while that he would check up on me in regards to my situation, mostly video chatting through Skype. I told him about what happened and he agreed with me; that he “hates men like that.” Keep in mind he’s in a relationship with a wholesome girl (super religious) who adores him and praises him publicly (through Facebook).

Also keep in mind that since the break up he’s been flirting with me as if he was trying his hardest to get with me. Talking dirty to me, flirting intensely, asking me playfully to take my clothes off for him, etc.

What happened to him hating men like that?

I’ve come to the conclusion that most men are never going to be that honest/wholesome. That if an opportunity to spread their seed arises, they are going to take it regardless of their emotional / social limitations and attachments to other women. I’ve come to expect that the types of men that I’m searching for are an absolute rarity, just like girls like me.

Statistics tell me to give up hope, and I’m not so sure whether I will absolutely deny the existence of such a man that will find me and be faithful to me or keep going through life trying to see the best in people despite how likely they are to disappoint in the end.